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Writing and talking about my life with a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder.
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Hopeful, positive role models for BPD in the Media
I know just one TV documentary about BPD by a person in the public eye, 'Me and the Voice in My Head' with Joe Tracini on Channel 4. I...
Aug 30, 2024


FAQ: 'What Helps You Live An Enjoyable Life With BPD?'
It's only natural that people who hear about my experiences are curious about what helps me feel better and how I've learnt to live with...
Aug 23, 2024


My Lifelong love of Journalling, Diary Writing & Scrapbooks
I've been thinking of writing a blog post like this for a long time (I'm talking years). Every time I considered doing it, I knew I...
Aug 22, 2024


Reviewing 'The Queer Mental Health Workbook: A Creative Self-Help Guide Using CBT, CFT and DBT'
My brilliant publisher JKP sent me The Queer Mental Health Workbook: A Creative Self-Help Guide Using CBT, CFT and DBT by Dr Brendan J....
Aug 20, 2024


My Most Accurate Description of the Highs and The Lows
It took me many years to get an accurate diagnosis for my mental health problems. I spent a long time (secretly and anxiously) worrying...
Aug 20, 2024


10 (Weird & Wonderful?) Things I Do To Balance My Unruly Emotions
(This post mentions food). Keep instant noodles in the house at all times. Instant noodles are a quick microwavable form of therapy for...
Aug 12, 2024


'I See Why You Feel That Way, Even Though I Think You're Wrong!' Myths About Validation
One of the most common confusions I have encountered over the years is about the concept of validation. Validation is a hot topic in BPD...
Aug 10, 2024


Know thyself. And believe thyself!
What I haven't always been able to do though with this self-knowledge is believe it. Over the years I have been tangled up...
Aug 9, 2024


How Can Healthcare Professionals Create Emotional Safety?
Communication within healthcare, both physical and mental healthcare, is a passion of mine. What could be more personal than an...
Aug 6, 2024


My New Book Q&A
I'm about a third of the way through the first draft of my new book. Seeing as my first book was way more of a success than I ever...
Jul 21, 2024


I Still Struggle (A Lot) Sometimes
Please note this post mentions self-harm and suicidal thoughts. I may be a mum to my beautful daughter, partner to my amazing husband, a...
Jul 18, 2024


Being a Teacher with BPD: How & Why It Works for Me
Being a teacher can be one of the most stressful career choices, but it can also be one of the most rewarding. It has taken me a while to...
Apr 21, 2024
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